tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6495168928694112114.post7230255830889312765..comments2016-01-05T22:14:43.066-06:00Comments on Just Say Julie: FollowupJuliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01292703202237738422noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6495168928694112114.post-34592716693505052102008-04-22T22:30:00.000-05:002008-04-22T22:30:00.000-05:00OK...so I called Aardvark out and she responded. ...OK...so I called Aardvark out and she responded. (However, still disappointed in the rest of my so called friends!) I know she has been busy giving birth and all so I was really more giving her a hard time. Thanks for your comments though, Ra. You said some things that I needed to hear. I am definitely taking time for me right now and it is the best thing to do. And as for calling my friends, you know I never want to be a burden on anyone so it is easier to keep it to myself.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01292703202237738422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6495168928694112114.post-17376295146944825932008-04-22T10:19:00.000-05:002008-04-22T10:19:00.000-05:00I have been a little preoccupied. Of course I hav...I have been a little preoccupied. Of course I have an opinion...<BR/>Codependent is a strong word. I have been surprised by your willingness to move on with your life. I thought after the divorce you would move home..but you didn't. I thought you would at least stay where you were...but you moved to a whole new place and started a whole new life. You bought a house, started a new job and MOVED ON! <BR/><BR/>It is hard for anyone ot be "alone" and it is easy to want to jump back in to a relationship right after one ends (rebound is a word for a reason). It is even harder to step back and say that you deserve better and that you need to take time for yourself. So take a deep breath and do it. Find things to do that keep you busy. Take a class that has nothing to do with work. Take Mav to soem kind of doggy class... anything that keep s you busy. In the long run....you will be glad you did. <BR/><BR/>And don't forget to call your friends when yo u are lonely.Aardvarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16071923945082834951noreply@blogger.com